既不是以丈夫為主，也不是以妻子為中心；更不是說誰比較了不起，誰要成為不幸的犧牲者。一首歌是由“歌詞”與“音樂(歌曲)”結合而成。同樣的，夫妻乃是以平等的個體，同時去奏出一體的人生旋律。是否視為“人生的伴侶”，兩個人一同去唱出多麼優美的一首歌？我認為這點很重要。
The husband is not the centre of the relationship, nor is the wife. It's not a question of who is the leader or who must make himself or herself a sacrifice for the other's success and happiness. Just as a song is a marriage of music and lyrics, husband and wife are equal individuals who, at the same time, perform a single melody of life together. What is important, I think, is how beautiful a song those two life partners can create together.
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